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Confronting the Collective's Shadow

The world feels more exposed and more haunted than ever. It's as if a long-held curtain has been pulled back and we are suddenly seeing what fuels so much of modern life and the "successes" of humanity. The illusion that politics, culture, and entertainment sit on solid ground is fading. Every day it becomes clearer that these systems have relied on harm, dehumanization, and secrecy.

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Part of you wants to look away. Another part refuses to surrender your awareness, even when the truth feels unbearable. You may feel the instinct to detach so you can keep functioning, yet something wiser in you resists the urge to normalize what should never be normal. Finding clarity in this environment is hard, but you are not powerless. Naming what you sense, and learning how to stay conscious in the midst of it, is a form of resistance.

You are not imagining it. You are responding to a very real rupture in the collective psyche.

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The Shadow We Share:

Jung, Lacan, and the Unseen Forces That Shape Us

 

Psychotherapist and psychiatrist Carl Jung described the shadow as everything we dislike or would prefer not to see about ourselves. This includes impulses we deny, histories we would rather forget, behaviors we abhor, and truths that feel too disruptive to acknowledge.

 

The shadow is not only personal. It also lives within families, cultures, institutions, and entire nations. When Jung spoke of the collective unconscious, he was naming the vast psychological field that holds what we inherit from those who came before us. In today’s world, that inheritance feels especially heavy.

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You may sense the collective shadow when you watch the news or scroll through your phone. It appears in the cruelty people justify in the name of power, whether in positions of great power or a neighbor seeking justice for his own shadow material outside of himself.

 

It appears in the refusal to recognize each person’s humanity. The shadow is present when harm becomes ordinary and you are expected to adapt instead of question.

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Psychoanalyst and psychiatrist Jacques Lacan did not use the word shadow in the Jungian sense, but he described the way our identities are shaped by forces outside our awareness. For Lacan, the unconscious is structured by culture and language. What we refuse to acknowledge often reveals itself through symptoms, contradictions, or the feeling that something is deeply wrong. Both Jung and Lacan pointed to the same truth. What remains unspoken eventually speaks through us.

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Understanding the collective shadow does not make the world less disturbing. It does help you make sense of why so many people feel overwhelmed, fragmented, or disoriented in this moment. You are not imagining it. You are responding to a very real rupture in the collective psyche.

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Both Jung and Lacan pointed to the same truth: What remains unspoken eventually speaks through us.

open. Both reactions are understandable.

 

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Many people describe feeling split between one part moves through daily life and tries to function and another part that is constantly processing what the world reveals each day. It is exhausting to carry so much truth without a container for it. When you try to talk about it, you might feel misunderstood or dismissed -- many people would prefer to keep their blinders on, no matter how difficult it's becoming. The result of this is a sense of isolation that reinforces the pain.

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You are not meant to metabolize this alone. What you are confronting is not an individual problem. It is the collision between your nervous system and a world that has stopped pretending to be harmless. If you feel destabilized, it is not a flaw in you. It is evidence of your humanity.

The Weight of Daily Exposure

 

Most people face these realities while holding a job, keeping up with the bills, caring for loved ones, chasing dreams, and trying to maintain a life that feels stable. You might wake up and reach for your phone only to be met with footage of violence or stories of systems designed to exploit human beings. It is a disorienting mix of the ordinary and the unthinkable.

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Exposure like this can fragment your sense of safety. You might feel grief, numbness, helplessness, or anger. You might feel confused about how to care about the world without losing yourself in despair. Even simple tasks can feel surreal when they exist beside evidence of widespread suffering. You may worry that you are becoming desensitized, or that your heart is too 

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What you are confronting is not an individual problem. It is the collision between your nervous system and a world that has stopped pretending to be harmless. If you feel destabilized, it is not a flaw -- It is the very evidence of your humanity.

One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light but by making the darkness conscious.

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Carl Jung

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Approaching Collective

Shadow Work

 

Collective shadow work begins with the willingness to not look away. It also requires the capacity to stay present without collapsing. You may feel an instinct to reject the harsh truths that are surfacing, or to reject parts of yourself that become activated in response. The work is to stay curious about both.

You have a shadow of your own. It holds the parts of you that were not welcome in your family, community, or early environment. When you learn how to approach your personal shadow with honesty and compassion, you build the muscles needed to face the collective shadow as well. The goal is not perfection or eradication of the undesired; it's integration. You acknowledge your complexity, and in doing so, you reclaim strength that once felt forbidden.

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On a collective level, this work involves witnessing what is broken without surrendering to cynicism. You look for the places where you can influence change, even in small ways. You strengthen your ability to stay grounded while engaging with the world. You let your grief inform your clarity instead of shutting you down.

Meaning is created when you respond rather than retreat. You contribute by staying awake, refusing to normalize harm, and caring for your own psyche so it can sustain long-term engagement. 

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How Therapy Can Help You Navigate the Collective Shadow

Therapy gives you a place to digest truths that feel too large to carry alone, make some semblance of meaning, and rally for the world you want to see instead.

 

Therapy helps you understand why these revelations affect you so deeply and how to remain grounded while staying alert. Together we can examine what these cultural realities evoke within you and how they connect to your personal history and internal world.

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In therapy, you can learn to name the archetypes that rise when the world grows dark. You can understand why certain images or stories stay with you. You can develop practices that steady your mind and help you act from wisdom rather than fear. 

Get Started with Therapy

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Vanessa Setteducato, LMFT

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Los Angeles, California

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