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How to Find Joy During the Holidays: Practical Ways to Manage Seasonal Stress

  • Writer: Sette Therapy
    Sette Therapy
  • Nov 24
  • 2 min read
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The holiday season brings a mix of excitement and pressure. Many people try to create meaningful memories while juggling expectations, obligations, and emotional triggers. This combination can make joy feel like something you have to earn. When stress rises, joy can feel out of reach, but it does not disappear. It simply becomes harder to notice.


Small Moments of Joy

Joy is not always loud or dramatic. It often shows up quietly in small moments. You might feel it during a pause with a warm drink, a meaningful conversation, or a few minutes of genuine rest. Recognizing these moments is a skill that can be strengthened over time.


Reducing Holiday Overload

One of the most effective ways to find more joy is to reduce the intensity of the season. Ask yourself what genuinely matters to you this year. Not what has mattered in the past or what others expect, but what you want to honor. When you focus on a few values-driven choices, you create more emotional room for connection and calm.


Intentional Boundaries

Boundaries help protect your energy. You can decline invitations without guilt or choose simpler plans. Boundaries allow you to be present in the moments you choose rather than stretched too thin.


Returning to Yourself

Joy often emerges when you feel grounded. Practices like stepping outside for fresh air, taking a brief walk, or spending a few quiet minutes alone can act as reset points. These moments support your ability to enjoy the season rather than endure it.


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